We have created a football team that will change every game we play depending who is feeling strong enough to play on that date, but unlike any other team we want NO COMMITMENT.
Our goal is not about being the best team in a league or about getting the best players for the team...
Mental ill health strips away passion, enthusiasm, love, sleep and confidence in yourself and your skills... skills you may have built up over many years. It makes you feel devoid of feeling all together. It can lead to isolation and may have led to all joy being sapped from your life.
Now imagine that. Feeling like that and being committed to a football team where no matter how you feel, you have to go and play, but with no passion, no drive, no enthusiasm, confidence or sleep. It leads you to dread it and not play at the level you feel you should be at. Then you beat yourself up because you feel you’ve let the team down, and finally you quit or get dropped...
That’s where we come in!
We aren’t about leagues or cups...
You coming out of the house, getting those boots back on is winning. Getting on that pitch again and getting that feeling back of playing as one team is winning. That thrill of scoring is winning.
Each game we play, our team(s) will be made up of our online MATES Mental Health awareness community or people who want to raise awareness. We want to build people back up after mental ill health has kicked them down and we will do all we can to build up that friendly, supportive group of friends around you that you lost when you stopped playing football because of mental ill health.
The team is also run by a specific group of MATES Positive Mental Health Ambassadors with an unrivaled wealth of football experience between them. They have or are having Minds: Mental health awareness in sport and physical activity training as well as other relevant training.
In turn, our Ambassadors use their skills and knowledge to give our bespoke free presentations on awareness to any football team that would like us to attend, contact us if you’d like us to deliver a session.
Run by Football Fitness Club...
MATES FC is also registered with the CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably) Football Collective, and we proudly have their blue badges on our kits. We get to be part of this incredible movement and have access to the education, guidance and resources that CALM promote and create.
We will follow and build on the approach taken by Mind, CALM and Heads Up to get the best help and support for our community through football.
MATES FC is part of Active Essex brilliant campaign to Find Your Active. Find Your Active celebrates the fact that everyone can enjoy the huge benefits of moving more - it's just about finding what is right for you. When it comes to getting active, we know that finding the right activity greatly increases your chances of creating a new, sustainable, healthy habit.
So, whether it's getting out in the garden, a short walk, a social bike ride, some light stretching, a friendly game of football or a visit to your local leisure centre, the benefits of increasing daily movement will soon show, and have a really positive impact on your health and wellbeing.
Find Your Active shines a light on all of the different ways and opportunities to get moving around Essex, Southend and Thurrock. You may need support or encouragement to get active, which is why Find Your Active is encouraging every community to have an ambassador to champion movement and help you find the activity that is right for you.
We can play as an 11-a-side team, or a few 5/6-a-side teams. We want to play in 5/6 a side tournaments or 11-a-side friendlies. So if you have an office team, a pub team, a charity tournament, etc.... We want in!
Contact us at weareyourmates@gmail.com